What Is an Ethical Problem?

On the Good Life, Responsibility, and Human Relationships

There are questions in life that cannot be solved through technical manuals or fixed formulas. Questions that are not merely about what is efficient, profitable, or practical, but about what is right. How should we meet another human being? What do we owe one another? What does it truly mean to act well?

These questions accompany us throughout life. They arise in family life, in work, in politics, in love, and in the care of others. They emerge whenever we must choose between competing concerns. It is precisely here that ethics begins.

Ethical problems are therefore not special problems reserved for philosophers. They are woven into human existence itself. Perhaps one could say that ethical problems arise because human beings live together, depend upon one another, and constantly have to manage power, responsibility, and trust.

This text is based on reflections developed through many years of teaching social work and practical philosophy.

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Ethics Does Not Begin with Rules

Many people associate ethics with rules. We think of laws, commandments, or moral obligations: “Do not lie,” “Do not harm others,” “Help people in need.” Such rules are important. No society can function without a minimum of shared norms and values.

Yet ethics is something more than obedience to rules.

Ethics is first and foremost about how we live together with other human beings. It concerns consideration, responsibility, and judgment. It is about understanding that our actions always affect the lives of others.

In social work this becomes visible every single day. A caseworker meets a family struggling financially. A teacher must decide how to respond to a child after yet another conflict in the schoolyard. A nurse stands beside the bed of a frightened and lonely patient. None of these situations can be fully resolved through rules alone. They require human judgment.

Ethics is therefore not only about what we do, but about how we do it.

To Live Is to Manage Dependence

Human beings are not isolated individuals. We live our entire lives in relationships with others. From the very beginning, we are dependent upon one another.

A small child cannot survive alone. The elderly depend on care. The sick need help. Even the most independent person is woven into a network of relationships, language, culture, and history.

To live is therefore to manage dependence.

This is a fundamental ethical insight that modern individualism often struggles to understand. We like to think of ourselves as free and autonomous individuals, yet the truth is that life is always a life shared with others.

When we forget this, ethics risks being reduced to technique or administration.

Ethics instead asks:
How can we manage this dependence in a truly human way?

Everyday Life Is Filled with Ethical Questions

Ethical problems rarely appear as dramatic philosophical dilemmas. More often, they arise quietly in ordinary life.

In family life they concern responsibility, fidelity, caregiving, and the upbringing of children. In working life they concern power, loyalty, truthfulness, and trust. In schools they concern justice and dignity. In social work they often concern how we meet people who are already vulnerable.

Sometimes ethical problems appear as conflicts between competing values.

Should we follow the rules strictly, or make an exception for the sake of a particular human being?

Should we remain loyal to the system or to the person standing before us?

Should we tell the truth when the truth may cause harm?

There are rarely simple answers.

This is why ethics requires reflection.

Morality and Ethics Are Not the Same

In everyday language, morality and ethics are often used interchangeably, but philosophically there is an important distinction.

Morality refers to the norms and values people actually live by. It is the concrete practice of a culture or society.

Ethics is the reflection upon morality.

Ethics seeks to examine and justify why something is right or wrong. It asks which principles ought to guide our actions.

Morality can therefore be both good and bad. History shows us that societies may uphold moral norms that later appear deeply unethical.

Ethics thus becomes a critical activity. It examines whether our habits, institutions, and traditions truly promote human dignity.

Moral Phenomena

When we begin reflecting ethically, we enter a landscape of moral phenomena:

good and evil
right and wrong
guilt and responsibility
shame and forgiveness
justice and injustice
virtues and vices
duty and freedom

These are not abstract theories detached from life. They are experiences human beings encounter in concrete situations.

A child who is humiliated experiences injustice long before learning the definition of the word. A person treated with respect experiences dignity without having studied philosophy.

Ethics therefore grows out of human experience.

Ethical Competence

In social work we often speak of professional competence. But there is also something we might call ethical competence.

This competence is not merely knowledge of theories and principles. It concerns judgment, sensitivity, and the ability to understand situations.

To act is always to exercise power.

A teacher has power over students. A therapist has power over clients. A caseworker has power over people’s opportunities in life. Parents have power over children.

The ethical question therefore becomes:
How should this power be used?

Ethical competence involves using power in ways that promote human dignity rather than submission.

Utilitarian Ethics — The Greatest Happiness?

One of the most influential ethical traditions is utilitarianism.

Here, actions are judged according to their consequences. What is right is what creates the greatest possible benefit, happiness, or quality of life for the greatest number of people.

This perspective often appears intuitively reasonable. If an action reduces suffering and increases well-being, it seems natural to call it good.

Utilitarianism has also profoundly influenced modern society. Much of politics and economics is, in practice, shaped by such calculations.

Yet utilitarianism also faces serious problems.

What happens if the happiness of the majority is achieved at the expense of a minority?

Can it be morally acceptable to sacrifice some individuals if the total outcome improves?

Here we encounter one of utilitarianism’s major weaknesses:
it says little about how benefits should be distributed.

Human Beings as More Than Quality of Life

Another criticism of utilitarianism concerns its understanding of the human person.

If human beings are primarily viewed as “carriers of quality of life,” there is a danger that people become objects of calculation.

But human beings are not mathematical equations.

When we stand before a person in distress, our response is often immediate. The vulnerability of the other calls upon us. Not because we first calculate social utility, but because we experience responsibility.

At this point ethics becomes more fundamental than calculation.

It becomes a matter of human encounter.

Duty Ethics — The Inner Value of Action

Duty ethics represents another ethical perspective.

Here, consequences are not central. Instead, the moral quality of the action itself matters. Some actions are right in themselves, regardless of the outcome.

We should not lie.
We should not violate another person’s dignity.
We should respect human beings as ends in themselves.

This perspective is strongly associated with Immanuel Kant. For Kant, human beings possess intrinsic worth and should never merely be treated as means.

Duty ethics highlights something essential:
that every human being possesses inviolable value.

Yet duty ethics can also become problematic if rules detach themselves from life.

When Morality Becomes Moralism

There is a danger within all ethics:
that it hardens into rigidity.

When rules are followed without human understanding, morality becomes moralism. Duty becomes more important than the person.

We all recognize situations where people hide behind regulations:
“I am only following procedures.”
“That is how the system works.”
“It is not my responsibility.”

But ethical responsibility can never be entirely delegated away.

Every individual must ultimately take a stand.

Kierkegaard and “The Single Individual”

In the thought of Søren Kierkegaard, the individual human being stands at the center.

Kierkegaard criticized a life in which people merely drift along with social expectations. Human beings, he argued, must choose themselves and take responsibility for their own existence.

The ethical life is therefore not merely about rules, but about becoming a human being.

About becoming oneself.

For Kierkegaard, ethics is not something external that one puts on like a garment. It concerns existence itself — the way a person lives.

This makes Kierkegaard especially relevant within practical philosophy and social work. He reminds us that no human being is merely a “case,” a “client,” or a “service user.” Every person is a unique existence.

Aristotle and the Formation of Good Habits

In Aristotle we find another important ethical perspective.

Aristotle believed that human beings do not become good through theory alone, but through practice. Virtues are developed through action and habit.

One becomes courageous by acting courageously.
One becomes just by acting justly.
One becomes caring by showing care.

Ethical competence is therefore something cultivated throughout life.

This insight is particularly important in professional education. No one becomes a good social worker simply by reading books. It requires experience, reflection, and encounters with other human beings.

Trust as the Foundation of Life

The Danish philosopher K.E. Løgstrup described how human beings meet one another with a fundamental trust.

Whenever we speak to each other, we place ourselves in the hands of another person. We entrust something of ourselves to them.

Thus, we always hold something of another person’s life in our hands.

This is one of the most profound ethical insights I know.

A human being can be lifted through an encounter.
But a human being can also be wounded by one.

In professional life this becomes especially clear. A remark from a teacher may follow a child for years. An encounter with the welfare system may either awaken hope or deepen shame.

Ethics therefore lives within small actions.

The Spontaneous Expressions of Life

Løgstrup also spoke of spontaneous expressions of life:
mercy, trust, hope, openness, and love.

These cannot be fully justified through theory. They simply exist as fundamental possibilities within human life.

When one person spontaneously helps another, this often happens before reflection.

This does not mean reflection is unimportant. Rather, it reminds us that ethics is not only theory. It is also a movement of life itself.

Communicative Action

Modern societies are often dominated by instrumental thinking. Efficiency, productivity, and control shape many institutions.

But human beings cannot merely be treated as objects within a system.

Jürgen Habermas therefore developed the idea of communicative action. Conflicts should be resolved through dialogue and mutual understanding rather than through manipulation or force.

The central question becomes not merely:
“What works?”

But:
“What is just?”

This is crucial within social work, education, and healthcare. When institutions become overly instrumental, the human being risks disappearing.

The Good Life

Perhaps this is ultimately what ethics is about:
the good life.

Not understood as a life without suffering or conflict, but as a life in which human beings attempt to live responsibly together with others.

Ethics does not begin in abstract theory.
It begins in the encounter between human beings.

In the way we see one another.
In how we exercise power.
In how we respond to vulnerability.
In how we manage the trust that has been placed in our hands.

Ethical reflection is therefore not primarily about becoming morally perfect.

It is about becoming more human.