The Professor Who Was Really a Gardener
When I graduated my first cohort of social work students, they gave me a small gardener figurine. They often called me the gardener rather than the professor. I appreciated that more than they may have understood.
The figurine has since stood in our kitchen garden, watching over the potatoes and leeks. It has kept guard there for more than twenty years, through rain, sunshine, frost and new growing seasons. It has become weathered, but it is still holding its ground.
Over the years, the students’ gift has acquired a meaning far beyond the occasion on which it was given. It contains something of what I hoped to be as a teacher, perhaps also something the students saw before I myself had found the words for it.
The Professor’s Authority
The professor and the gardener represent two different ways of encountering other people.
The professor carries a title. He possesses knowledge, authority and the right to assess. He can approve or fail, ask questions the student cannot answer, and assign a grade to another person’s performance. Even a friendly professor can seem intimidating to a young student. The role carries the power of the institution with it.
There is a distance inherent in the professorial role. The person standing before the lecture hall can easily appear to be the one who knows, while the student becomes the one who does not yet know. Knowledge can open the world, but it can also be used to mark distance.
The gardener stands somewhere else.
He does not stand above what is growing. He bends down towards the earth.
My mentor called this the posture of humility. Sometimes a human being must kneel in order to tend the soil and what grows from it. You cannot care for a plant from a safe distance. You must come close enough to see whether the soil is dry, whether the leaves have been attacked, whether the plant needs support or protection.
You get soil on your hands.
Nor can the gardener command the plant to grow. He can sow, water, weed and fertilise. He can protect it from frost, slugs and deer. But the plant itself must perform the growth, on its own terms. If you pull at it in order to make it grow faster, you destroy it.
So it is with human beings.
Being Placed in a Category
When I was ten years old, the school assessed me as intellectually disabled and described me with words that today seem both offensive and incomprehensible. The school had a category available, and I was placed within it.
The category did not merely describe certain difficulties I had. It was used as a judgement about who I was and what I might become.
My later life would show how mistaken that judgement had been. I became a social worker, a child welfare leader, a therapist, a researcher and a professor. I completed a doctorate and wrote books and articles. But it is too simple to turn my later academic career into a triumphant proof that the school was wrong. The child had to live with those words long before the adult could contradict them.
The experience taught me something decisive:
A human being is never the category into which they are placed.
Categories may be necessary. We use them in research, legislation, education and social work. We need concepts in order to understand and act. But the category is a tool. It is not the human being.
When we forget this, a description can become an identity, and an assessment can become a destiny.
Fruit and Vegetables
When I introduced new students to the philosophy of science, I sometimes used a simple exercise. I placed various items from the supermarket’s “fruit and vegetables” section in front of them and asked them to classify what they saw.
The task seemed easy.
Tomato, potato, banana, beans, mushrooms and herbs. Surely everyone knew what these were.
And yet everyone was wrong.
Botanically, the tomato is a fruit. The potato is a stem tuber. Beans are seeds from a legume. A mushroom is neither a plant nor an animal. The banana plant is a large herb, while the banana we eat is botanically a berry.
What had seemed simple turned out to depend on which language and which system of classification we used: that of botany, the kitchen, nutritional science or the supermarket.
From there, we moved on to social work.
If it is so difficult to classify a tomato or a banana, how careful should we not be when classifying a human being?
During their education, I hoped the students would learn that human beings are human beings, and that at the same time we are all different. We are not the diagnoses, problems, case records or categories into which we are placed. A human being is always more than professional language is able to capture.
Teaching from Below
Perhaps my autism spectrum traits helped make me more gardener than professor in my encounters with students.
Autism has not merely been an obstacle I have overcome. I have reached my goals, and more besides, because of it, not only despite it.
My capacity for deep concentration, my persistence, my need for precision and my resistance to empty hierarchies have been important resources throughout my life. The experience of standing outside has also made me sceptical of authorities who believe they can quickly determine who another person is.
This does not mean that I always understood my students intuitively. On the contrary, I have often needed time to understand the other person. Perhaps that was precisely what led me to ask more and assume less. I could not simply trust that I had already understood.
That left room for the student’s own voice.
To teach as a gardener does not mean being indulgent or refusing to set demands. A garden needs both care and boundaries. Some things must be supported, some tied up, and some pruned. But the intervention must serve growth, not the gardener’s need for control.
The students were not meant to become copies of the professor. They were to develop their own professional judgement, their own language and their own way of encountering other people.
My task was not to shape them in my image, but to contribute to the conditions in which they could grow.
The Art of Midwifery
This is closely related to the Greek word μαιευτική — the art of midwifery.
For Socrates, the teacher is a midwife who helps an insight to emerge without being its creator. The midwife does not create the child. She assists at the birth.
The gardener, too, practises a form of midwifery. He does not produce life, but helps it come forth. He tries to create conditions in which something can germinate, take root and grow.
The same applies to the good helper in social work. We do not create the other person. We do not own their development. We can listen, protect, challenge, support and help new possibilities become visible.
But the life must be lived by the other person.
To help is not to shape a human being in our own image. It is to protect the conditions that make growth possible.
The Dream of Becoming a Botanist
When I was young, I dreamed of becoming a botanist.
At the age of eighteen, I met the woman who is still my wife. I was married at nineteen and became a father at twenty. Life required a secure and relatively quick route into employment, and I chose a three-year social work programme. By the age of twenty-four, I had a full-time job.
My further academic education came only after our three children had grown up and I was able to begin dreaming again. By then, social work had already become my field.
I would live the same life again if that were possible. I have been fortunate.
But the botanist never disappeared entirely.
He lives on in the kitchen garden we inherited, together with the modernist house, from my parents-in-law. They had cultivated a kitchen garden in this very place since the 1960s, and we have continued the tradition. Herbs, vegetables, fruit and berries grow here.
The garden provides food, but it also keeps my ageing body in motion. I walk, bend, lift, weed and carry. The plants give me a reason to go outside and see what has happened since yesterday.
When I work there, I often wear a genuine straw hat that I bought in an Amish community in the United States while travelling to give lectures. It protects me from the sun, but it has also become part of the role of gardener. In the illustration accompanying this essay, the small gardener figurine has been given such a hat. In that way, it resembles not only the students’ gift. It also resembles me a little.
A portrait in disguise.
Humus and Human
The word humus means earth or soil. It is linguistically related to humanus, the human.
The human being is the earthbound creature.
We live from the earth, work with it and eventually return to it. When I bend over the garden bed, I know that it is not only the plants that belong to the soil. In a few years, I too will be beneath this earth.
That is not necessarily a dark thought. It requires humility and acceptance.
The posture of humility then becomes more than a working position. It becomes an attitude towards life: to bend without being broken, to acknowledge one’s limitations without losing the capacity to act.
I know that life is finite, and still I sow.
I plant things whose future seasons I may not live to see. One day I will be carried out of the house and past the kitchen garden. But until then, I will continue tending what grows.
The Gardener Is Still Teaching
I am no longer a professor in the institutional sense, but many of my former students follow my blog on practical philosophy. From time to time, they leave a “like” or a heart beneath a text.
It may appear to be a small gesture, but I understand it as a sign of recognition:
Their teacher is still teaching and still telling stories.
The teaching did not end when the lecture hall became empty. It changed form.
On the blog there are no grades, examinations or reading lists. There, thoughts can grow more slowly. I can write about shame, guilt, ageing, autism, social work, dragonflies, beans and banana plants. Everything can become practical philosophy when examined closely enough.
The small gardener figurine still stands among the potatoes and leeks, weathered but persistent. He reminds me of the students who saw something in me before I had fully found the words for it myself.
They understood that knowledge is not only a matter of standing upright before others and telling them what is true.
Sometimes the person who teaches must bend down.
For the person who never bends cannot come close enough to see what needs care.
Perhaps all genuine teaching begins precisely there: not with the authority of the professor, but with the attentiveness of the gardener.
This essay was written in a conversation with OpenAI/ChatGPT, which also made the illustrasjon.