What Is a Human Being?
A Kierkegaardian Reflection for Our Time
We live in an age that can measure almost everything.
We count heartbeats, calories, income, productivity, intelligence, risk, and performance. We classify personalities, diagnose disorders, optimize habits, and track sleep through glowing screens beside our beds.
Yet amid all this knowledge, one of the oldest and deepest questions often fades into the background:
What is a human being?
We speak constantly about people, but rarely pause to ask what a person truly is.
Perhaps that silence is not accidental. It is easier to measure than to understand. Easier to classify than to encounter. Easier to describe others than to examine oneself.
Here, across the distance of nearly two centuries, Søren Kierkegaard still speaks with surprising force.
The Courage to Begin with Ignorance
In Philosophical Fragments, writing through his pseudonymous author Johannes Climacus, Kierkegaard makes a playful but profound proposal: let us assume that we know what a human being is.
The irony is clear.
We do not know.
Or rather: we know many things about human beings, yet remain uncertain about the human being as such.
In this, Kierkegaard stands close to Socrates. Socrates disturbed his own age because he questioned what others took for granted. He exposed false certainty and insisted that wisdom begins in the honest admission of not knowing.
That remains difficult for every generation.
We prefer answers. We admire confidence. We reward those who speak as if everything were already settled.
Yet the question of the human being does not open through certainty. It opens through humility.
Sometimes the most intelligent sentence is still:
I do not yet know.
More Than a Category
Modern societies often understand people through categories.
Citizen. Consumer. Patient. Employee. Voter. Case number. User profile.
These descriptions may contain truth, but none of them reaches the center.
A human being is more than a role, more than a social function, more than data gathered in a file. Something in us exceeds every label.
Kierkegaard saw this clearly. He was suspicious of crowds, abstractions, and systems whenever they swallowed the individual person. He believed that truth becomes deepest not in the mass, but in inwardness—in the life actually lived.
This does not mean selfish isolation. It means that no system can live your life for you.
No theory can suffer for you.
No institution can choose for you.
At decisive moments, existence becomes personal.
“A Human Being Is an Existing Being”
Kierkegaard offers a deceptively simple answer: a human being is an existing being.
At first glance, this may seem obvious. Of course human beings exist.
But Kierkegaard means something more demanding.
To exist is not merely to be present biologically. It is to stand within time, freedom, uncertainty, responsibility, hope, regret, love, anxiety, mortality, and possibility.
A stone is.
A tree grows.
But a human being must in some sense become.
We are given life, but not finished form.
We arrive incomplete.
And that incompleteness is not a flaw. It is part of our dignity.
The Self as a Task
One of Kierkegaard’s most enduring insights is that the self is not simply something one possesses. The self is also something one must become.
This is very different from modern slogans about “creating yourself” as if identity were a branding project.
We do not create ourselves from nothing.
We receive life, history, temperament, wounds, possibilities, limitations, relationships, and circumstances we did not choose.
Yet within what is given, a freedom appears.
How shall I relate to what I have been given?
Will I live second-hand, shaped only by expectation and fear?
Will I disappear into imitation?
Will I betray what I inwardly know?
Or will I gradually become more truthful?
This is the drama of the self.
Anxiety: The Price of Freedom
Kierkegaard’s reflections on anxiety remain startlingly modern.
He did not treat anxiety simply as pathology. He saw in it a revelation: anxiety discloses freedom.
When we realize that we can choose, change, begin again, disappoint others, disappoint ourselves, speak honestly, remain silent, love, withdraw, commit, or flee—anxiety often follows.
Freedom can feel dizzying.
Many people therefore prefer necessity.
They prefer routines they secretly resent, identities that no longer fit, expectations imposed by others, or habits that deaden inward life.
To remain trapped may feel safer than to become free.
Yet anxiety can also become a teacher.
It may be the trembling that accompanies the birth of a more truthful life.
Despair in Successful Times
Kierkegaard uses the word despair in a deeper sense than ordinary sadness.
Despair is not merely sorrow. It is a failure in relation to oneself.
A person may appear successful, admired, productive, even cheerful—and yet inwardly be estranged from the self.
One may live efficiently while living falsely.
One may gain the world and quietly lose inward ground.
This is not only a nineteenth-century problem.
It may be one of the central conditions of modern life.
Many today are exhausted not simply because they work too much, but because they live too far from themselves.
To Lose Oneself and Find Oneself
There is a paradox in all mature human growth.
To become oneself, one often has to lose oneself first.
One may need to lose borrowed ambitions.
Lose the need to impress.
Lose inherited masks.
Lose the identity built entirely on pleasing others.
Lose the illusion of control.
Only then can something quieter and more solid emerge.
This process is rarely dramatic. More often it happens slowly.
Through suffering.
Through failure.
Through love.
Through age.
Through solitude.
Through honest conversation.
Through the gradual exhaustion of falsehood.
Then a person sometimes says, after many years:
I am finally becoming myself.
What Our Time Forgets
Every age forgets something essential.
Our age risks forgetting that a human being cannot be reduced to metrics.
We know how to rank, compare, market, predict, and optimize. We are less certain how to listen, how to suffer meaningfully, how to stand alone, how to become inwardly free.
We are surrounded by information, yet often starved for wisdom.
Kierkegaard reminds us that the deepest human questions are not solved by accumulation of facts.
They are lived.
What is love?
What is courage?
What is despair?
What is faithfulness?
What is freedom?
What is a self?
These cannot be downloaded.
They must be wrestled with.
The Human Being as Relation
Kierkegaard describes the self as a relation that relates itself to itself.
This difficult phrase contains real insight.
We are beings who can turn toward ourselves.
We remember ourselves. Judge ourselves. Hide from ourselves. Forgive ourselves. Misunderstand ourselves. Reconcile with ourselves.
We can become divided inwardly.
But we can also become integrated.
This inner relation is part of what makes human life both difficult and profound.
A human being is not merely something observed from outside.
A human being is also an inward conversation.
A More Hopeful View
Yet Kierkegaard is not simply severe. He is also a thinker of hope.
If the self can be lost, it can also be found.
If one has lived falsely, one may begin more truthfully.
If despair exists, renewal exists.
If fear imprisons, courage can still awaken.
The unfinished nature of the human being is therefore not only burden. It is possibility.
As long as life remains, something remains open.
So, What Is a Human Being?
No final formula will suffice.
But perhaps we may say this:
A human being is a creature who must become what he or she already, in some hidden sense, is.
A being suspended between limitation and possibility.
A self called to truth.
A freedom that can be misused or deepened.
A life that cannot be fully explained from the outside.
A question that each person must answer by living.
Closing Reflection
Perhaps the danger of modern culture is not that we know too little about the human being.
Perhaps it is that we too quickly think we know enough.
Kierkegaard and Socrates still offer another path: begin again with wonder.
Ask the old question without embarrassment.
What is a human being?
Not a machine.
Not a statistic.
Not a role.
Not a possession.
But a self in the making.
And perhaps wisdom begins the moment we recognize that this work is never fully finished.
References
Søren Kierkegaard Kierkegaard, S. (1985). Philosophical fragments (H. V. Hong & E. H. Hong, Trans.). Princeton University Press. (Original work published 1844)
Søren Kierkegaard Kierkegaard, S. (1980). The sickness unto death (H. V. Hong & E. H. Hong, Trans.). Princeton University Press. (Original work published 1849)
Søren Kierkegaard Kierkegaard, S. (1987). Either/Or, Part II (H. V. Hong & E. H. Hong, Trans.). Princeton University Press. (Original work published 1843)
Socrates Plato. (2002). Five dialogues (G. M. A. Grube, Trans.). Hackett.
The text is mine with input from OpenAI/ChatGPT, which also created the illustration